Once upon a time, some of our favorite people on earth made a terrible, horrible, no-good, very bad, decision.
They moved away from us.
They took their children that I loved like my own, they took their stovetop popcorn maker that I loved, they took their comfy couch, and they packed them all in a moving truck (not the kids) and moved far, far away.
I live in the midwest. It is a lovely place to raise a family. AND we have lots of corn. Why anyone would want to move away from here to Malibu, California is beyond me. (Unless maybe you like things like breathtaking views, the ocean, Disneyland, California livin', swimmin' pools and movie stars and stuff like that.)
Had they stayed here in the cornfields with me, they would not have been evacuated from their home this week. I guess maybe now they're rethinking all that ocean air-movie star-California livin-stuff, huh?
Fortunately, they are all ok; their home at Pepperdine is safe, the stove-top popcorn maker is fine. We are so thankful.
Their evacuation this week and reading my friend Jenni's blog about her friends who were also evacuated got me thinking....WHAT IF?
WHAT IF something happened and I had to leave my home with only minutes to grab things?
Could I quickly and easily grab important papers and documents? (No. They are in too many different files that are mixed in with other vitally important things like Christopher Columbus word searches and coupons for carpet cleaning.)
Could I quickly and easily grab important photos? (No. They are in about twenty different albums and twenty other boxes labeled "To Sort.")
Could I quickly and easily grab important family heirlooms? (No. The cedar chest Scott's grandpa made is a tad bit heavy for me.)
Could I quickly and easily grab an outfit for all six of us? (No. Well, technically I probably could, but if I didn't, it would be an excuse to go shopping.)
Watching the news coverage of the people affected by the fires in California or coverage of homes devastated by tornadoes or New Orleans families who lost everything is heartbreaking. And it helps put into perspective the importance of things I spend money on.
I really, really want curtains for my bedroom. I've never had any. My windows are shamefully naked. I look longingly at curtains at every store. I never seem to be able to afford any, though. (Apparently my kids want shoes that cover their toes and stuff. Whatever. Dave Ramsey has ruined all my fun.) But I REALLY, REALLY want curtains.
But if I had to leave my home in a rush, would I grab my curtains? (No. Because I DON'T HAVE ANY! But if I did, of course curtains would not be a grabbing priority.)
So what WOULD I grab? I would grab as many photos as I could. I would grab my purse. I might grab the laptop so I could blog about what I grabbed. But first I would probably grab a wooden box that sits in my bedroom.
The box was a Christmas gift for me from my mom's husband. He made it and it is beautiful. But it isn't the box that is so important to me. It is what sits inside the box.
That box holds all my love letters from my husband. They are my favorite earthly possessions. Scott is a fun, clever, hilarious guy. He is easy-going and keeps things light. But when he writes me love letters, he is tender and thoughtful and purposeful. In those letters I can trace our different stages of life; different stages of our marriage. In those letters I am reminded that I am treasured and adored by a wonderful man. In those letters I remember all that brought us together so many years ago. And in those letters I remember all that holds us together now. I'd love for my children to one day (years from now) read those letters and see how their daddy loved their mommy. I'd love for those letters to be a family heirloom.
So I would grab that box of letters.
And I assume that if I ever had to flee my house quickly, it would be stressful, so right after grabbing my family, my box of letters, my photos and my purse, I'd grab a diet coke and some dark chocolate for the nerves.
What about you? What would you grab?
Thursday, October 25, 2007
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Poignant yet hysterical. A perfect blend! Like a great cuppa mocah with just the right amount of cream and sugar.
Me thinks I need to sort through some of my own Misc. boxes and consolidate the most precious into one spot. Otherwise, I'd grab the kids, the kitten, my wedding album, and then pray that the basement where all the other pictures reside would somehow be protected....is it a shameful thing to pray that God would send angels to protect stuff? hmmm...
my laptop. It's not all my pictures, but all the new ones anyway, and a few of the old ones I've scanned.
hmmmm. Interesting post Cindy. How poignant of you.
I love my husbands love letters as well, only some are sortof, well...errr...racy? I don't want my kidlets reading that, 'cause I'm not sure who would be more embarassed. :)
I would grab my purse, as getting a new license at the DMV is a nightmare. Maybe our 'important' box w/ birth certificates and insurance info and other junk. It would make life easier on me.
man, I never knew I was so practical! (nah, I knew that....but aren't YOU surprised?)
My pictures are mostly online except for the early, early years. But that's what grandma is for...she's got the duplicate copies of her first grandchildren stashed away.
Oh wow. Now you've got me thinking.
I would grab my kitties and all needed supplies, but that's a given.
I would grab the ONE picture I have of my mom and I together when I was 3. She passed away when I was 19.
I would grab my Bible.
And both my husband's and my cell phones/chargers.
It's funny, I thought there'd be more I'd grab. But now, looking around me, I can see how I could live without most of it.
I'm praying for all of those out there in CA. I'm a midwestern girl, too, and don't see how anyone could ever leave!
God bless :)
I think about this sometimes and I honestly can't think of anything past the kids and my husband. I would want to make sure I had clothes on cuz sometimes in the middle of the night I shed them. But other than that the fam is all I need althouth I'm sure I'd grieve over every little thing I left behind.
We live in the heart of God's country so I just don't see how being prepared for an emergency would be productive for me. Seeings how, there couldn't possibly any emergency here in the Heartlands! :) hehehe
We live right outside of New Orleans --so been there and done that.
Dog-dog food
Four cases of photos-still packed I might add.
4 days of clothes
All our meds
a box of easy to eat food that does not have to be cooked.
My Bible
extra blankets
Now I would add my laptop
I'm glad the pop corn popper is safe. That would have been a tragedy.
All this fire talk reminded me of a story I just posted. You will probably like it.
I'm glad I'm making time to do the blog thang again. I missed you!
My mom and I were just talking about this a couple of days ago, about WHAT IF, and how we ought to have copies of all the important papers in a metal box somewhere it would be easy to grab, and all the photographs in a central location.
As for what I'd grab, assuming my family and pets were safe, I'd get as many photos as I could take, my laptop, my Mrs. Beasley doll I've had since I was three and who went through every hospitalization with me, and a file I keep of letters, notes and cards from people important to me.
it's new here. i like it.
well, i don't have anything quite so meaningful as a big box of mushy love letters... right now all i know for sure that i would grab would be carmex. then my camera. then the laptop. maybe some photo albums.
oh my goodness. i look at curtains everytime i'm in the store, too. just today, in fact. the cheap ones are like $19 per panel!!! i would love new curtains/drapes in our living room and we have three windows. that would be $19 x 6 panels, whatever that amounts to. [way too much, i tell ya.] grrr. that's why we don't have them. and that's okay. some other day.
let's see... what would i grab? OTHER than my kids and my husband?
photo albums and video tapes (family videos). letters from my husband, too (but they're in two separate places (a bin in the basement AND a bottom drawer in my bedroom) so now i'm rethinking their placement. not too easy to grab, either of them.) framed wedding pictures of mark and i. my journals. oh yes, i need those. i can't imagine losing those.
that's it, though.
~stacy
I would grab my family and my control journal.
http://mrshoppes.livejournal.com/24318.html
We have a fire safe where we keep important documents and we have duplicates in the control journal.
Hi Cindy
clever posting...you ARE a genius!
;-)
Well, I'd take my photo of my dad, scrapbooks of my kids (and their adoptions), my wedding album, wedding video and a big wicker blue basket that was given to me by my friend Beth (her mom bought it for me before she died from lung cancer-Beth gave it to me after her mom died-it had some sweet words from her mom, God allowed me to be in the room with Beth and her mom as she breathed her last, *Caroline was a Christian ))...I store all the sweet letters that have been sent to me over the years, it is quite full, but such an upper when I am feeling "down".
of course all the little critters that live in my house too.
May it never happen to any of us...but thanks for the reminder of all the things that are special to me. God is so good to me.
Kimmie
mama to 6
one homemade and 5 adopted
I'd have to bring all 7 rubbermaid totes filled with pictures 'to be sorted someday when I have nothing to do.' And I'm afraid the kids' birth certificates and the title to my car would be lost forever because I'd be too busy trying to remember where it was that I'd laid down my wedding ring, because it was my Grandma's.
I left you something over at my blog today!
And I like the new look over here!
Lisa
Pictures, purse, computer, and my daughter's stuffed pink elephant "Genevive" (who I would run back into a burning house to save).
Lately I have been really convicted about my materialism. This post was a great read for me. I plan on blogging about my "issues" one of these days. ~Karlie
PS. I REALLY liked your comment on my Halloween post!
I used to love these kinds of questions, until my apartment actually caught on fire. It's no longer a what if. I can tell you what I DID grab: nothing. I didn't even have shoes on or my cell phone or purse. Thankfully, it was a relatively small fire and the fire and water damage was limited to the kitchen and the bottom 6 inches of the living room and my bedroom. Only one sentimental thing was ruined, but we kept it anyway. I realized afterwards that there was NOTHING that I owned on this earth that was of any true value to me. Here's looking to the eternal treasures laid up for us in heaven!
very thought provoking...and funny! i haven't given this much thought since we are in mid-western canada. not many natural disasters around here...except the occasional tornado. :-)
well, I just noticed your new look. Love the yellow! One of my very favorite colors!!! My whole kitchen is yellow. and the new pic up there! So nice. I'm gushing. And I only gush when I'm excited.
Hmmmm, I would grab our "fire-proof" safe with all the important documents and stuff. I would also grab my computer tower because of all the pictures in it and my picture and keepsake boxes....oh, and everyone's ni-nighs (blankeys)
A little something for you on my Sunday post!
Crack me up about the popcorn popper...
We are Ohioans who just up and moved to Oregon...the grandparents are still in Shock...take a quick stop by my family blog if you need some snarkiness in your life. I enjoyed yours! LOL!
www.snippetsandsagas.blogspot.com
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