Wednesday, August 8, 2007

Works for Me- Being Cheap AND In Love!

Birthdays, Anniversaries, Christmas, Valentine's Day, etc. ... So many chances for my hubby and me to show our adoration for each other by giving the perfect gifts. It seems, however, that there is never much money left over to spend on each other!

Over the years, we've come up with some inexpensive yet wonderful gifts. I have been on the receiving end of some gifts that I wouldn't trade for ginormous diamonds!

One year for my birthday when it seemed I had a zillion little children and was overwhelmed and exhausted, Scott committed to doing all the laundry for a year. (I took the job back after a month or so of shrunken clothes, but it meant the world that he was willing!)

For our tenth anniversary, I started scouting ebay for vintage postcards of places we've lived or vacationed. I framed them inexpensively and wrote out memories of our times at those locations. We've decorated our half-bath with the framed postcards and prints and they look great! I now add to the collection each Christmas.

The gift he gave me that same anniversary is one of my favorite possessions on earth. He wrote out memories from each year that we'd been married, compiled them, and had a title page which read, "1994-2004...The Best Years Of My Life". I can still cry reading it. He included details of our first house that I'd completely forgotten and his feelings about the birth of our children. (I know you want an excerpt, don't you?? "She was a miracle to behold, and I am so proud of you for being brave and strong and bearing her for me." Another line, "We share these memories, and no one can ever fully understand how big these little things are to us.")

One year when we were completely broke, his gift to me was the promise to bring a glass of water to me in bed every night for the rest of my life. It is now several years later, and he does it every night! It is daily reminder of his servant's heart and his love for me. And when he is out of town, getting myself that little glass of water reminds me of the incredible guy I'm missing.

A certain creative "gift" I gave earned me points for ages, but I won't go into details here! ;)

My favorite and most frequent (although currently long overdue) gift from Scott is a simple love letter. You wouldn't know it by reading his blog (Honey, I Fed The Kids), but he really can be amazingly romantic and knows just the right words my weary heart might need.

I'd love to hear if you have any cheap-o gift ideas I can steal from you!

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20 comments:

Sarah said...

How blessed you are to have a husband who knows the power of the written word, of memory, and of service!
SmallWorld

EEEEMommy said...

I meant to ask you about those postcards in the bathroom. You're right! They do look great! What a cool idea!

I knew an extremely godly Marine Colonel and his amazingly frugal wife and they would give eachother old cards which they'd already given eachother before and just write new messages on them underneath the old ones. I always thought that was a great idea. The other thing they would do is go to the card shop together and hand eachother cards back and forth, "here I'd buy you this is I had any money." :)

You guys all put me and my dh to shame, we're not very creative or frugal. (Although the best gift he ever gave me was a sleeve of Penn 4 tennis balls!) :)

Jill said...

These are great ideas. We have started to do something together instead of gifts cause neither of us really needs more "stuff." It isn't always cheaper since sometimes we do a night out on the town, but I remember it more than a blender.

Classic MaMa said...

Absolutely Beautiful!Must admit, I got a little misty reading your hubby's thoughts.

pippi said...

for our 15th annivesary, I told my husband I wanted new references, since I was tired of hearing the same dozen references to explain any situation. Bless his heart, he worked hard and did it. That's why today is our 27th.

Liza's Eyeview said...

My hubby's birthdy and our anniversary is coming up. Thanks for the tips :)

Gayle said...

So....maybe when we meet up in Vegas we should let our hubby's hang out together. You think he could give mine some pointers?

Tim in WA said...

I really liked the idea of compiling memories for the 10th anniversary ... I did something similar for my Dad for his 70th birthday, with a list of 70 of the things he had taught me.

One inexpensive gift I like to give my wife is time -- whenever possible, I take all five of my kids away on an adventure for the day. Eight or ten hours of time alone is a wonderful and precious gift for any homeschooling mom.

Short Stop said...

These are wonderful! What a great husband you have! I love those kind of sentimental things...they just mean so much!!

Thanks for sharing!

Ang said...

What great creative ideas! They truly show a servant's heart. I need to remember that more often.

I made a shadow box for our anniversary this past July out of vintage postcards from the state we had recently moved from. It made us both cry and is a beautiful reminder of where we began our life together.

elaine said...

I love these ideas! I recently saw someone do a list of things they love about the gift givee that matches their age/anniversary etc. I thought that was sweet. I will be stealing some of these for sure. (I am the youngest of four girls)

chickadee said...

what a guy. and where's the picture of the clever postcards.

Kimmie said...

Cindy

You are greatly blessed...your guy is a sweetheart- somehow everytime I picture him I come up with blue eyebrows ;-)

thanks for sharing your gift ideas...your man is definitely faithful and dedicated!

miss you
Kimmie
mama to 6
one homemade and 5 adopted

ConservaChick said...

My husband's birthday is Monday... I appreciate this post and the "tips" from the commenters! I bought him a cute pair of overall for Father's Day that I REALLY wanted to see him in, and two months later, they are still in the gift bag on his dresser. OK, maybe it WAS a selfish gift, and he really isn't going for the whole "cute in overalls" look this season, but hey, it was worth a try!
BTW, I tagged you! ~Karlie

Rachelle said...

I loved this post. Your gift ideas are so beautiful you actually made me teary. :-)

Scott said...

I can honestly say that it is fun to use the bathroom with all the postcards and old-timie photos. It reminds me what a wonderful past we've had together and how excited I can be for the future.

Michelle said...

what great ideas! I really liked the vintage postcard idea!

msmith said...

My sweet husband promissed to bring me a glass of water every night as part of our wedding vows-five years later he still does! I am so blessed with him. Please come visit at http://web.mac.com/everychapter

Mary@notbefore7 said...

Wow! These are such creative gifts. I love the water glass idea. What a blessing to have such memories that have cost you nothing, but mean everything!

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